Dunner ar Dybwad; Herb Lovett; Rosemary Dybwad; Jack Pearpoint; Marsha Forest – a Circle of Friends
This article went viral in the early 90’s because families were starving for new options for their children, teachers could feel possibility but were trapped… So simple down to earth stories of using the concepts and models of Circles and MAPS were ‘revolutionary’ to many in education. This article introduced the ‘ideas’ of Circles and MAPS – with stories. It was foundational to much of the education inclusion work.
Marsha Forest – Books, Articles and Videos
Jack Pearpoint – Books, Articles and Videos
Marsha Forest & Jack Pearpoint
Common Sense Tools:
MAPS and CIRCLES for Inclusive Education
Marsha Forest & Jack Pearpoint
Annie, Tommy, Jay, Andreas, Katherine, Becky, Erica, Mark, Greg, Miller. Katherine. Peter… the list is too long and too painful to produce. These are the names of children who have been rejected by the public schools of Canada and the USA. They are black and white, girls and boys, youth and teenagers. In common is their parent’s simple dream of having their children accepted and educated in one quality school alongside their neighbors. In common is their rejection from the schools of our nations. In common is the label “disabled” pinned on them, like the yellow star pinned on people labeled Jewish, and the pink triangle pinned on people labeled homosexual, during that terrible period called World War 11.
The Nurenberg Trials confirmed to the world that pinning yellow stars and pink triangles on people was unacceptable. It was ruled a crime against “humanity”. But today, no Nurenberg trials have ruled that IQ scores and disability labels are often death sentences to the children we “place” into “disability” boxes. Special education is one such disability box that we know now is neither special nor indeed educational in any sense of the word. This is no longer hot “news”. The data has been in for several years. The outcome for people labeled “disabled” is a life of loneliness, poverty, and joblessness – not an outcome any family would choose for their sons or daughters. Despite this data, segregation still thrives and is considered an “acceptable” educational placement and practice. It is still OK to talk of “them” and “us”.
Segregation is NOT acceptable. It is bad pedagogy (for ALL children). It is uneconomic, immoral and unethical. In short, segregation must stop. This article is about how to integrate children, end segregation, and improve educational outcomes for all.
No matter where we go, people are talking about the “Butwhatabout” Kids. Some of the presently popular euphemisms include hard-to-serve, at-risk, etc. Why don’t we just admit it outright. These are children and teenagers who scare us to death, who threaten our mortality and who make us vulnerable and nervous. That is natural, normal and human. What is unnatural, abnormal, unacceptable and inhuman is our systematic “boxing” and subsequent rejection of the people – or the illusions about people that we fear. We encourage people to square off with the fear, conquer it, and welcome all people back to our communities, complete with their mortality, vulnerability and incredible capacities to teach us about what is important in life.
THE MONSTER WE CALL FEAR
The first task is to face this monster called fear. Mythology tells us that most “fear” monsters are slain merely by facing them. We don’t tell teachers to give up their fears. Rather, we suggest they face them head on; take up a mighty sword and slay them, one by one.
FEAR is the most frequent word we hear as we talk with educators. “Don’t be afraid,” many people say. Not us. We encourage teachers to, “Be afraid! Talk about the fear. Name it! Get it on the table!” When the fear monster is out in the open, you can kill it, go around it, or learn to ignore it. You can manage it. But as long as the fear is unnamed, the fantasy will frighten us more than any reality. Fear of the unknown; fear of failure; fear of not knowing what to do; fear of mortality: these are real fears. Once faced, fears can be overcome.
When we meet fearful teachers, we offer a little “monster powder”. We propose an alternative to these fearful human mortals who are just like us. Our “monster powders” are state of the art strategies that build confidence and a better future for all our children. MAPS and CIRCLES of FRIENDS are tools which take the responsibility off one person and puts planning in the hands of a team comprised of school personnel, family and the children themselves.
MAPS and CIRCLES are based on common sense and don’t cost a great deal of money.
But Beware. These strategies require three important pre-conditions:
1. The desire to slay the monster of fear.
2. The desire and ability to learn and change.
3. The desire and ability to work as a member of a team.
We feel if teachers cannot meet these criteria, they should consider another career!
Strong words you say. You bet. These times call for strong words and bold deeds. The crimes of illiteracy, miseducation, and rejection can no longer be tolerated. We know too much. Systems like Johnson City in New York and the Hamilton Wentworth Catholic School Board in Ontario, Canada prove what can be done. These beacons in a still-too-bleak educational landscape have no more money and no more brainpower than any other system.
What distinguishes them is leadership with guts, clear values, and the vision of an outcome that spells success for all children entering the doors of our schools today.
We no longer have to prove that quality education can work. It can. It is now up to others to justify why they cannot deliver quality education to all their children as they do with daily success in Johnson City or Hamilton.
Reversing Rejection – Full Inclusion for All
The Centre for Integrated Education and Community is devoted to reversing the rejection of the Beckys, Katherines, Judiths, Suneels, Sunitas, etc. We are developing state of the art strategies and training workshops to help systems and individuals reverse the terrible tide of segregation and engage the challenge and thrill of full inclusion for all. Because we are white water canoe and kayak enthusiasts, we see the path like a white water rapid -full of rocks and churning water – but a great challenge and lots of fun!
No Magic Bullets; No Micro Wave Solutions; Just Hard Work
We make no claim that a MAP or a CIRCLE as described in this article is a magic bullet or microwave solution. These strategies, developed and practiced for a decade with live children in real school systems in Canada and the USA, are simply tools in the arsenal for quality education for all – a dream we believe to be viable and necessary.
MAKING A MAP
This strategy has been pioneered and used by many teachers and families in the past ten years. The laboratory has been two school boards in Canada, (the Hamilton Wentworth Catholic School Board under the leadership of Jim Hansen, and the Waterloo Region Separate School Board under the Directorship of George Flynn.) First and foremost, these two boards (approximately 20,000 students each) believe wholeheartedly that:
* All students belong in regular classrooms – no ifs, ands or buts
* Ordinary teachers can teach all children
* Necessary supports will be provided when necessary
* Quality education is a right not a privilege
* Outcomes must be success, literacy and graduation for all
* Creative alternatives will be available for populations not succeeding in the ordinary fashion (i.e. they developed store-front schools, cross age tutoring, alternative high school programming as required).
A Cookbook Lesson
We love to eat and cook, A quote from the back cover of the original 1973 version of Tassajara Cooking sums up our feelings about the strategies we have developed:
“This is a book to help you actually cook – a cooking book. The recipes are not for you to follow, they are for you to create, invent, and test. It explains things you need to know, and things to watch out for. There are plenty of things left for you to discover, learn, and stumble upon. Blessings. You’re on your own. Together with everything.”
We invite you to treat MAPS and CIRCLES as recipes from the “Tassajara Inclusion Cookbook”. MAPS & CIRCLES are designed to help you do it … not to do it for you. You must “create, invent, and test. They explain things you need to know, and things to watch out for. There are plenty of things left for you to discover, learn, and stumble upon. Blessings. You’re on your own. Together with everything.” Read on in the Tassajara spirit.
We recently received a phone call that illustrates the dangers of seeing strategies as “magic bullets.” The organizer of an upcoming workshop called and asked, “Will the participants at your workshop really leave knowing how to include all kids in regular classes?”
Marsha took a deep breath and answered in a friendly but firm tone, “No. In two days you don’t learn brain surgery and in two days no one person can learn “IT” i.e. how to integrate all children magically into school. We hope the participants will get-a tasty appetizer which will give them the inspiration and conj6dence to begin, and to continue to get more in-depth knowledge, training and experience of the issue.” The caller reframed the concern, and inquired if a reasonable revised objective might be that everyone leaves the workshop feeling confident that this was the right direction for their school system. We said that too was our hope, and that most people would be ready to dive right in and try it out!
It is glib to think that anyone will learn all they need to know about dealing with children with complex needs in two days. But, with consistent use of MAPS and Circles strategies, as well as other exciting state-of-the-art approaches, within a year, we have found great success in being able to include almost all children.
What we’ve learned in ten years is that we can welcome ALL students into our nation’s schools and classrooms – if we want to. This is regardless of the complexity of children’s needs – be they physical, mental or emotional. After all, “untrained” parents have been doing it for years. As one of our friends said after the birth of her daughter – “Jane didn’t come with a set of directions. If we figured it out, so can a school. After all, teachers are paid for it; we’re not. And they are trained educators, and we’re not! It should be easier for them. Basically, it is very simple. If they want Jane, they’ll figure it out just like we did. All it takes is time and love.”
(NOTE: The first graphic is the Original template we used for MAPS. Our more recent template is above. For additional information, see our book, The PATH & MAPS Handbook: Person Centered Ways to Build Community
MAPS is a collaborative action planning process that brings the key actors in a child’s life together. In the spirit of cooperation, this team creates a plan of action to be implemented in a regular classroom setting. It is NOT a case conference or an individual Education Plan (IEP), (but the results can certainly be used on any IEP form).
MAPS is facilitated by two people – practicing what it preaches – “together we’re better”. One person acts as the MAPS RECORDER making a public record (preferably using graphics) on large chart paper. This is an essential element of a MAP. The other person is the HOST who welcomes the group, explains the process and facilitates the MAP.
Essential elements of a MAP:
1. Co-facilitation (Host and Recorder) (can be interchanged)
2. Graphic recording with colorful markers on chart paper
3. Hospitality – a personal and informal atmosphere (snacks, beverages, tokens of thanks)
4. All key actors in child’s life present and participating
5. Focus person and their siblings and friends present and participating
6. Key issues addressed: WHAT DOES the CHILD and/or FAMILY WANT?
7. Decision to meet again (with a date)
8. Concrete plan of action (actual things to do right away)
Without these essential elements, the plan is not a MAP. It may be something similar but a MAP must have the above eight elements (or have a good reason to leave an element out.)
A MAP is made up of Questions that can be conceptualized as a circle. Each key must be used but there is no particular order. The facilitators decide on their direction depending on the needs of the group.
Setting the tone and introductions:
Before the MAP, the facilitators set up the room in an informal semi-circle with comfortable chairs. Chart paper and clean markers should be ready. Snacks are available for people before the session begins. Colorful nametags are ready. The facilitators invite the group to be seated, introduce themselves, and then ask everyone:
“Please tell us who you are and explain your relationship to Mark (the focus person).”
Question #1 – What is a MAP?
The facilitator asks the participants to think of a MAP and asks, “What is a MAP?” Here’s how one recent group answered:
“A MAP shows direction.
It tells you how to get from one place to another.
It shows you how to find stuff.
A MAP tells you where to go.”
“That’s exactly what we’re here to do. To show direction for Mark’s life, to help him and his family get from one place (the segregated class) to another place (the regular class).
The MAP will also help us figure out how to find the “stuff” that Mark needs. If we all work together, we can decide where to go next. Together we can create a plan of action that we can put into practice for Mark starting right away.”
Question #2 – (which can also merge with the dream Question #3) What is the Story?
“Please tell us your story. What are the most important things that have happened since Mark was born? I know you can go on and on with this, so I’ll limit you to 5-7 minutes. Tell us what you feel is really important for all of us to hear and to know about Mark’s story.”
The facilitator must be careful not to make this a case history. She/he must listen with all heart, soul and body. The recorder writes the story – words, pictures and images. The facilitator also asks the participants to listen with their hearts.
“Don’t listen just with your ears. Listen with your whole body. Don’t be judgmental. This is not a trial. Try to feel, hear what the person is telling you from inside – as if it were your own story”. We often ask this question before the dream. It depends on the tone and mood of the group. The recorder summarizes the story after the family or person has completed their thoughts being sure that the facts are correct and the essential elements of the story are there. The recorder should request the assistance of the MAPS team to correct spelling, facts, etc. Making simple errors (especially with people’s names) can be very upsetting to some people, so legitimize corrections. Request assistance. This increases group participation and ownership.
Question #3 – What is Your Dream?
This is really the heart and soul of the MAP. The facilitator must build an atmosphere so that the family feels comfortable to say what their dreams, hopes and wants really are.
“If you could dream the dream you really want, if you could have anything with no holds barred, what do you really truly want for yourselves and for Mark? Money is no object. Don’t hold back. Let yourselves be free to really say what you want. Don’t ask for what you think you can get. This is different. This is what you realty want and dream about or pray for.”
There is often a deathly silence at this moment. It is essential. Do not interrupt. Wait. Allow the family time to build up their courage to get out their real feelings and hopes. If this is rushed, the whole MAP may be futile.
When a facilitator asks the question about people’s dreams with a full heart, so that people gain the confidence to risk stating their buried dreams, profound things often happen. A pattern has emerged after years of asking this question. Parents all over the continent have told us that the MAP empowered them to dream again. As one Colorado parent stated, “A map is a way of restoring the dream to a family”. With older teenagers or adults, the person states their own dream. The MAP restores a dream to the individual.
“BUT”, someone out there is thinking. “Butwhatabout” the person who can’t speak? We have done many MAPS with children labeled “non-verbal”. Although these children don’t speak, they certainly communicate. And if the group knows the child well, someone will be able to articulate their own dreams for the child, and also the dreams they think the child might have.
“If Mark could speak, what do you think his dream would be?”
Families often weep openly as they tell us, “My dream is that my child be happy, be included in school, walk or ride to school with his sister, be invited to birthday parties, have a hamburger with a friend, and have the phone ring just for him.”
One 12-year-old girl told us “I want a trip to Hawaii and a job with computers. Also a pet dog.” She was clear as a bell.
One parent of a medically fragile child told us, “I want my child to have one real friend before she dies. My nightmare is that my child will never know friendship.” (This little girl did die soon after, but because she had moved into a district that welcomed her, the mother did get her wish. The entire 3rd grade class attended her daughter’s funeral. The family knew that their daughter had made real friends in her all-too-short life.
Question #4 – What Is my/our Nightmare?
Many people consider the Nightmare question the hardest to ask. We believe it is one of the most important because the MAP must identify the nightmare in order to avoid it. Unless the MAP prevents the nightmare, it is a waste. Unless the OUTCOME of the plan of action is to prevent the worst from happening, all we are doing is simply busy-work.
In ten years of doing MAPS, these are the most consistent responses to this question.
“My nightmare is that my child will end up in an institution with no one to love him/her.”
“We will die and my child will be alone and put in a group home.”
“My child will never have a friend.”
No one has ever said.
“I’m afraid my child will not get an A in math or learn phonics.”
“I’m afraid there won’t be a proper functional curriculum”
This question often breaks the ice between warring factions. When school staff see that the parents want what every parent wants for their children, barriers break down. We have seen wars melt into peace treaties. A Kentucky woman broke down describing how her eighteen-year-old son was currently living out his nightmare, institutionalized, after having blinded himself
“Our family is in the nightmare,” she wept. “All we wanted, all we want now is some shred of human kindness and friendship to our son.. “
We had to stop for coffee as all participants, both factions, were in tears. For the first time, they were meeting as human beings rather than as warriors on opposing sides of a placement review table.
Facilitators do not have to be familiar with the person or the family, but must know the MAPS process inside/out. The facilitators must first and foremost believe 150% in the fact that full inclusion is possible for all! The facilitators must be good listeners – able to hear great pain without providing immediate advice and solutions.
The teachers and school personnel are a part of the group. The facilitators can be school personnel or an external team. The facilitation role is to pull information from the group and move it along into an action plan. The recorder creates a photograph of what the group says with color, graphics, and also summarizes what has been said before going to the next step.
Questions #1-4 are Part I of a MAP. It is often necessary to take a break at this point. The second part will be lighter, faster paced and move toward the action plan.
MAPS – Part II
Question #5 – Who is Mark?
We like to draw an outline of a person on the chart paper and hand out post-it notes to change the mood and motion of the MAP. This is a brainstorm session. Each person writes a word or phrase (one per post-it note) and posts it on the outline. This gives us a snap shot of the person. A recent MAP of a 12-year-old boy had these words:
curious, handsome, determined, likes good snacks, always hungry, potential, my son, dimples, pretty ordinary, my brother, very active, pest, a little brat, somebody’s great friend someday, an interesting boy, lively, likes to play with drums, great family.
The recorder attempts to group the words to get a picture of Mark. We sometimes ask, “What have other people said about Mark in the past? What words have been used before in other meetings?’ In this case, these were the words previously used to describe Mark:
retarded, developmental delayed, autistic, severely autistic.
These should be posted separately, but the recorder may want to highlight the dramatic differences between the two portraits of the same person.
Question #6 – What are Mark’s strengths and unique gifts?
Another list was generated:
happy, beautiful boy, loving, friendly. he can look you in the eye and smile, gives a lot, he has a ‘look’, helps to put things in perspective, makes you feel good.
Place “Post-its” all over an outline of the Person
Question #7 – What does Mark like to do? What is Mark good at? What are his needs?
This brainstormed list is important as it gives us many ideas for the curriculum and daily program:
Mark likes to throw balls, play with ropes and strings, climbing in parks, eating, relax, swim laps in the pool, play in water puddles, go skating, play in clothes closets, be with people.
By this point, we have generated an enormous volume of information on Mark. We ask,
“First and foremost, what do we all need to make this DREAM happen? What does Mark need? What does Martha (the teacher) need? What does the family need? “
At this MAP, the only people present were Marks mom, dad, teenage sister, and a dedicated teacher/friend. When it came to Mark’s needs, there was a real consensus that Mark ‘needs to be involved, and to meet people his own age.” The family needed him to meet other children so his mother could begin to build a life of her own. The family agreed that a “worker” (to help build community integration) would be a godsend. They wanted that person to take Mark to local places where he could “get involved” with other kids. The job description for that person was developed from what was said at the MAP:
· Find places where he can meet kids
· Find kids to spend time with him
· Go to the youth centre
· Get involved in trips swimming and activities
· Develop more communication skills
Question #8: The Plan of Action:
When you frame the needs question carefully, it flows directly into a plan of action. In some circumstances, i.e., planning a curriculum, we might draw the timetable, and have the other students brainstorm all the activities that Mark likes and could do. Then, we explore the logistics. If Mark is going to get from History to gym, and be dressed in 10 minutes, he will need help – a guide. Who would be willing to help? We link specific people to specific times, places, classes, and activities.
In this instance, the family enthusiastically agreed to plan a pizza party at their home and invite some neighborhood kids – that weekend. Together with Greg, the teacher/friend, they started to look for a community integration facilitator. Greg agreed to facilitate another MAP with a wider group in one month. A date was set.
Concluding a MAP
A Map must be concluded. The recorder walks/talks the group through a summary of the charts and presents the charts to the family as a gift – along with other gifts i.e. a plant, a cake, something sweet, and something that grows.
Before it ends, the host/facilitator asks each participant one more process question.
“Will you give me one word, or a phrase to sum up your experience of this MAP? Off the top of your head … the first word that springs to mind…”
Here’s what this group said:
Mom: I’m relieved. Great session.
Dad: Very positive. Thanks.
Mark: (gives us all a really big smile.)
Greg: Fabulous and positive.
The metaphor for the MAP is a kaleidoscope. The kaleidoscope is a magical toy, a mysterious and beautiful tool that changes constantly. Through the eyepiece we see little bits of beautiful color turning together into an ever-changing luminous melody of color and light.
We see the kaleidoscope as the outcome of each MAP. It is a medley of people working together to make something unique and better happens. It is more than anyone can do alone. It proves what we strongly believe -TOGETHER WE’RE BETTER!
CIRCLES OF FRIENDS
Stop. Take thirty seconds. Try to imagine a world in which you did not have a single person who truly loved you. Imagine having no family and no friends. Imagine that only paid personnel see you in the morning and at bedtime. Imagine a world where none of your peers spoke or walked. Take a moment to remember how it feels to be that lonely and isolated.
Recently, we met a young woman who literally had no one in her life. She had been abandoned by her parents at the age of four and placed in a group home for children with “severe to profound mental retardation”. As we did her MAP, she sat with us and listened intensely to the conversation. We were told that she banged her head and screamed constantly. The person we observed sat still for two hours and listened intently. What did she hear? What did she understand? It is our belief that she heard and felt our concern, that through her blind eyes she saw love and people who were afraid for her life. We believe she responded to that caring by sitting with us for two hours. She is sixteen years old and knows no one her own age.
It was clear that an intentional circle needed to be built immediately. Diane had been physically present in a regular high school but spent her days in a segregated class. She was present – but invisible. No one really knew her.
The school called together a group of teenagers and teachers who expressed an interest in helping Diane.
“How would you feel if your life looked like Diane’s?” we asked.
One young woman said quietly but without hesitation,
“I’d commit suicide.”
“I’d sleep all the time.
I’d take drugs.
I’d kill someone.”
They saw immediately that what Diane needed most was to be with them – to get out of the segregated room. They brainstormed places they could go with Diane. There was a rock concert coming up. One student volunteered to take Diane with her and her other friends. Another decided to visit Diane and have dinner with her at the group home. The students thought Diane would like the music and cooking classes, which were noisy, and the teachers were “pretty cool”. The ideas flew. Diane sat through the meeting with a smile as she gently rocked back and forth, back and forth.
The Circle Exercise
Several teachers decided to get involved. Rather than blaming themselves for what they had not done in the past, they switched their energy into actions they could deliver in the future.
The result: six months later, Diane has regular visitors to her group home; she has gone out more in six months than In the past ten years; and one teacher and student seem to have formed a special bond with her. They have invited Diane to their homes for dinners and Sunday outings. It’s a good start. Best of all, Diane is out of the segregated room and goes to music,cooking and other regular classes. She hangs out in the lunchroom, and has stopped poking the comers of her eyes and screaming as much as before. Is Diane “cured”? No! Does she now have people to talk to, things to do, and a life to look forward too? Yes! Equally important, Diane’s classmates are learning and gaining even more than Diane. They are getting “experience” (hands on training has always been the best) in problem solving (number one issue in the curriculum) with a REAL and relevant problem. They have to create curriculum, timetables and trouble shoot with Diane. They are learning to manage teachers, manage behavior and confront values issues. Their acquaintance/friendship with Diane may be one of the most important learning activities of their lives. There is still a long way to go, but the circle has started. Diane has a dream, and her new friends are part of it.
CIRCLE AT CAMP
Norman wanted to go to camp, but everywhere he and his family went they were told that Norman’s needs were too Treat. One young counselor who had completed one of our workshops decided o put the learning into action. He wrote is this letter, which illustrates the simplicity and complexity of the idea of a CIRCLE.
“We decided Norman could attend our camp. That was a big step in the right direction. I had all the kids together in the recreation hall and I gave my little speech. ‘A circle of friends is a support group that helps any camper having problems feel more welcome and included.’ I was received with blank stares. 0ops, I thought, I better look at my course notes again. I blew it that tune.”
“After bombing with this great opening statement, I simply asked the kids to talk about Norman, who they had met that morning. What do you think Norman can do all day at camp?’ Boom! Everyone was talking at once. That was a question ten year olds could relate to – it wasn’t a lecture on circles.
“The meeting lasted about twenty minutes, ending with suggestions about how they could do things together with Norman. I asked for a smaller group of volunteers to help me plan Norman’s day. EVERYONE VOLUNTEERED.
“Norman’s biggest challenge and the reason he had been rejected by every other camp in the universe was “weak bladder control.” Several people (adults) had suggested that Norman should sleep in a separate building to “hide” the problem.
“I decided (with Norman’s permission of course) to put the issue out in the open. The children suggested (quite matter-of-factly) that they take turns waking Norman up in the night to go to the bathroom. It never occurred to them (and they rejected outright) the suggestion that he sleep in another building! The counselors volunteered to take turns helping when needed.
“Many baseball games, slumber parties, canoe and splashing trips later; Norman no longer requires a “one-to-one” worker. His bladder problems are getting better (only twice a week instead of every night. Norman’s circle of supporters (now a smaller group of real potential friends) meets for an hour every four days. The children and counselors really look forward to it. So does Norman. Norman’s circle has become a place for all involved to get support. Last week Norman wasn’t even theissue. The topic of the day was Tanya’s bad temper.
“Finally I should tell you that the social worker called me in shock regarding the progress Norman had made. She asked me if we could work on budding a circle in his school and in his group home community this Fall. I told her I would love to come and help one of the school people become a facilitator. I guess I really learned a lot in the workshop on MAPS and CIRCLES. Norman was my chance to try it out myself. It was the best experience of my career. I’m launched.
Thanks and Love.
To us MAPS and CIRCLES are like building a good foundation for a house. What good is a castle if it is made on sand? What good are communication skills if you have no one to talk to? What good is physical mobility if you have nowhere to go? What good is life itself if you have no one to share it with?
The Centre for Integrated Education and Community (CIEC) is busy refining its training institutes and workshops so that we can spread the word about the beauty that lies in the heart of inclusion. We have no pretences that we have THE answer. We do however have years of experience, and hundreds of success stories that tell us full integration and quality education are indeed possible.
We have no illusion that in a short article we can do more than whet your appetite to learn more. Please write us with your questions and concerns. We see ourselves as problem-solvers and facilitators, not answer givers. We enjoy working with people who see problems as challenges to be solved. This final story illustrates our point.
We had just finished a weeklong white-water canoe/kayak course. We thought that our friend Judith Snow might really enjoy a raft trip down the incredible river we had run in our smaller craft.
We approached the staff at the Madawaska Kanu Centre. We told them that Judith traveled around in a wheelchair, which she drove with her thumb. We explained she only had use of her mouth and thumb for mobility.
Before we got the words out, these energetic rafters were planning where Judith would sit, how many extra people they’d need to carry her into the raft, and how she could enjoy actually going in the water to body surf
They were beyond us. We only hadher in the boat. They had her in the water too. What a difference! Most people look at Judith and only see PROBLEMS. To the rafters, this would be fun, a challenge. If she wanted to go, they would take her. There was no question. End of story.
How refreshing! If we can create the opportunity for Judith to go rafting and surfing in the Madawaska River, surely we can create the opportunity for all the children in Canada and the U.S.A. to attend school alongside their neighbours and friends. There are simply no more excuses! Judith hasn’t decided if she really wants to go rafting, but the vast majority of families have decided that they want to be welcomed in their neighborhood schools. Attitudes are the major barrier and are no longer an adequate excuse. We must welcome all children now. It is their right. Our future depends on it. There is simply a need for action – NOW.